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Introduce Yourself > Seeking advice (55 replies - 18259 views)

Update on my crazy messed up life. The wife and I are in the talks of divorcing. Of course it's not a very good atmosphere ...   2012-07-29 05:51 pm

Introduce Yourself > Seeking advice (55 replies - 18259 views)

I am, and my new "friend" is really helping me. He keeps reminding me that even though I'm going through some tough times right now, ...   2012-07-23 11:20 pm

Discussion > A sticky situation (2 replies - 1997 views)

Oh god I've fallen so hard for this guy! I told him the other night all about what is going on in my life and ...   2012-07-20 05:52 am

Discussion > A sticky situation (2 replies - 1997 views)

Ok..so I've decided I'm going to tell this guy he truth. I feel like He deserves he simply because he has been such a good friend ...   2012-07-16 06:45 pm

Introduce Yourself > Seeking advice (55 replies - 18259 views)

You know, I've been thinking since that last post and I know I complain a lot about my situation, but honestly, I have never been ...   2012-07-13 07:29 pm

Introduce Yourself > Seeking advice (55 replies - 18259 views)

Yes I know she can only do to me what I allow. But right now I am financially not able to get a place of ...   2012-07-13 05:49 pm

Introduce Yourself > Seeking advice (55 replies - 18259 views)

I know, and honestly, I want out of the marriage, not simply so I can be free to explore this part of me that I've ...   2012-07-13 01:47 pm

Discussion > A sticky situation (2 replies - 1997 views)

Ok, first I wasn't sure where to post this so I stuck it here. If it needs to be moved please feel free to do ...   2012-07-13 01:17 pm

Introduce Yourself > Seeking advice (55 replies - 18259 views)

I haven't found a therapist yet (still looking) but I had already decided that if she tells one more person about this I was going ...   2012-07-11 04:37 pm

Discussion > Looking for clarification (9 replies - 4081 views)

This weekend has been hell!! All the crap at home topped by work related problems and rehearsals for the musical! I'm just an emotional wreck. ...   2012-07-09 03:58 pm

Introduce Yourself > Seeking advice (55 replies - 18259 views)

OMG!! I found out yesterday evening that she went to our family doctor and told him about me "thinking I'm gay" (her words not mine)!! ...   2012-07-07 02:39 pm

Introduce Yourself > Seeking advice (55 replies - 18259 views)

Not saying it wouldn' be worth it but I can tell you for a fact that if I tell her i'm going to see a ...   2012-07-07 04:00 am

Introduce Yourself > Seeking advice (55 replies - 18259 views)

Thanks I'll check them out and see what I can find out. Just keep sending positive energy my way! Feeling a bit down today for ...   2012-07-06 02:23 pm

Introduce Yourself > Seeking advice (55 replies - 18259 views)

The problem is, all of those are in central to northern Arkansas and I live in southern part of the state! I think I called ...   2012-07-06 01:57 pm

Introduce Yourself > Seeking advice (55 replies - 18259 views)

Thanks. I'll check that link out. Trying to find a center nearby but that isn't panning out. ...   2012-07-06 04:42 am

Introduce Yourself > Seeking advice (55 replies - 18259 views)

I know I need to get out. And honestly, I want out! It's draining me, physically and emotionally. The problem is, I don't know how ...   2012-07-05 07:57 pm

Introduce Yourself > Seeking advice (55 replies - 18259 views)

Ok I need to rant again! If I have another day like I had yesterday afternoon, my timetable for leaving may get moved way up! ...   2012-07-05 03:32 pm

Discussion > Looking for clarification (9 replies - 4081 views)

Well, I guess anyone who reads this forum and my posts knows I'm gay too...but you know what I mean. LOL ...   2012-07-04 06:43 pm

Discussion > Looking for clarification (9 replies - 4081 views)

Ok...confession time! I think I'm a bit smitten with this guy! I'm gonna call him Fred to protect his identity. He's the guy from the ...   2012-07-04 06:41 pm

Discussion > Looking for clarification (9 replies - 4081 views)

We had rehearsal again tonight and as we were warming up I said something about my character killing his character. His response was, "well if ...   2012-07-04 03:21 am

Discussion > Looking for clarification (9 replies - 4081 views)

I do see a lot of my younger self (afraid someone might find out) in him. Plus, now that I look back at it, there ...   2012-07-03 04:51 pm

Discussion > Looking for clarification (9 replies - 4081 views)

Well.. I don't know about completely going back in the closet. I had something really strange happen last night. I'm part of the cast of ...   2012-07-03 12:19 pm

Introduce Yourself > Seeking advice (55 replies - 18259 views)

Ok just giving a quick update. The weekend with the in-laws went smoother than expected. I still think my father-in-law is hacked off, mostly due ...   2012-07-02 07:30 pm

Discussion > Looking for clarification (9 replies - 4081 views)

Ok so I had a chance to speak with our pastor again, and without just comin right out and asking what he meant, I was ...   2012-07-02 04:08 pm

Introduce Yourself > Seeking advice (55 replies - 18259 views)

So the in laws are here now and so far so good. Nothing has been said about my "announcement" the other day, but I can ...   2012-07-01 03:14 am

Discussion > Looking for clarification (9 replies - 4081 views)

Something our pastor said the other day regarding the situation I currently find myself in has been stuck in my head and I'm just looking ...   2012-06-29 07:53 pm

Introduce Yourself > Seeking advice (55 replies - 18259 views)

Well...after finally getting a good nights sleep..thanks to Ambien...I have made up my mind that I am definetly leaving my wife. I don't know when ...   2012-06-25 01:53 pm

Introduce Yourself > Seeking advice (55 replies - 18259 views)

And now her parents are coming next weekend! Boy that ought to be a fun filled weekend!! She says they are coming for her birthday ...   2012-06-24 10:33 pm

Introduce Yourself > Seeking advice (55 replies - 18259 views)

I'm venting again!! Sorry! ...   2012-06-23 05:57 pm

Introduce Yourself > Seeking advice (55 replies - 18259 views)

This is fucking nuts!! She thinks things are getting better but honestly they aren't. First, I spoke to our pastor, mainly to get her off ...   2012-06-23 03:40 pm

Introduce Yourself > Seeking advice (55 replies - 18259 views)

I don't think I could get to the point of hurting myself. I'm too chicken for that. But it has gotten where I just "don't ...   2012-06-22 11:18 pm

Introduce Yourself > Seeking advice (55 replies - 18259 views)

That's just it. All of her family lives at least 3 hours away and because she is so shy, she doesn't have any friends she ...   2012-06-22 05:33 pm

Introduce Yourself > Seeking advice (55 replies - 18259 views)

I wish I had been brave enough to have come out before we got married. There was a friend I had before then that I ...   2012-06-21 08:08 pm

Introduce Yourself > Seeking advice (55 replies - 18259 views)

The thing is, I think she would do something to harm herself. She is bi-polar and is on medication. And if she did do something ...   2012-06-21 05:34 pm

Introduce Yourself > Seeking advice (55 replies - 18259 views)

THIS IS KILLING ME!!!! Inside I know that I am attracted to men, even if I've never had in sort of physical relationship with another ...   2012-06-21 01:57 pm

Introduce Yourself > Seeking advice (55 replies - 18259 views)

Now she's telling me she doesn't know how she'll live I I walk out and talking like she's going to do something crazy to herself. ...   2012-06-20 05:30 pm

Introduce Yourself > Seeking advice (55 replies - 18259 views)

Things are somewhat better today. Still a lot of crying and emotions (which I know is to be expected) but at least we are talking ...   2012-06-20 03:31 pm

Introduce Yourself > Seeking advice (55 replies - 18259 views)

This is fucking miserable. It almost makes me wish I hadn't said anything. I mean it felt good to finally admit it, but it was ...   2012-06-20 01:07 am

Introduce Yourself > Seeking advice (55 replies - 18259 views)

Well that went over horribly! And now it's nothing but a huge mess. She made me call my parents and have them come over and ...   2012-06-20 12:13 am

Introduce Yourself > Seeking advice (55 replies - 18259 views)

marshmallow wrote: I agree with ftmichael.  You have tried a long time.  You NEED to be honest with your wife about your sexual orientation.  How you ...   2012-06-19 08:03 pm


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