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SarahSquared

 

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I want to propose to the girl I love, but I'm the "femme" girl of the relationship. She's the "masculine" one, but does it really matter who proposes to who? I know it's different for everyone but I wanted some honest opinions from within the lesbian community. I live in NYS and she lives across the lake in VT, so technically we could actually get married in either state, but it'd most likely be in VT considering her family is more supportive. I'd like honest and positive opinions please. :)

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How exciting!  Even in straight couples women take the initiative to propose!  Go for it - roles do not matter in my opinion.  But, you know her better than I so you have to consider how she might feel.  ;)

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:)Hi: Congrats!!! I really don't think it matters who proposes!!! Just do what you feel.......

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:)Hi....I really don't think it matters just who proposes, just do what you feel and congrats!!!!!

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:)Hi....I really don't think it matters just who proposes, just do what you feel and congrats!!!!!

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I honestly don't think it matters if your the one proposing. If your more "feminine" then it might make it a bit more emotional. However, it still would be adorable. As long as its done by you and your with her, it doesn't matter. She loves you, so I'm sure she'll accept even if your proposing, not her.

Who knows, maybe she might have been waiting for that!

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Hey go ahead! All the best. Let us hope for a positive reply.

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First of all, congrats :) All replies here indicates the right thing. I too don't feel that, it doesn't matter who proposes. The thing matters is, how you are going to take the life. All the best wishes.


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