I flirted with this girl at work for months and eventually took her out on a date. Anyways, trying to get a second meet which seemed impossible so I asked what was wrong and she told me she was gay. Anyways, why go on a date and flirt with me for months? Looking for some answers who will be real with the topic in hand and not take offense on lesbian rights on flirting. I believe all people should be able to do what they want to do, but I was just hoping to get the opinion of individuals within the community. Thank you for those who take this question openly, I appreciate it.