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Joined: 2014-10-12
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Hi, I'm new to this site looking for some advice.
About 5 years ago I started dating this girl, we loved each other deeply and had a lot of trouble to see each other because her parents didn't approve the relationship. We were both 20 and fought really really hard to keep our love until I started losing control and fearing I would lose her cause I never felt enough for her, so I started acting possessive, made a lot dramas and lied "to try to keep her by my side" which obviously wasn't the way to keep her by my side and ended up making her break up with me.. Our relationship lasted 3 years and after breaking up with me I never really let her miss me and just couldn't stop begging her which ended up pushing her away even more. It's been a year and a half and I just can't get over her, in fact I STILL want to find a way to show her I've learned from all my mistakes but I just don't know how. I haven't talked to her for about 6 months and I know from a friends that she kind of hates me because I tried to reach her out through some mutual friends and ended up screwing things about a year ago.
I have tried moving on, I have tried dating other girls but I just can't get her off my mind, I realised she's all I want.
Please someone help me try to get her back, I don't care how long it takes, what I have to do, I just want to show her i can make her the happiest girl on earth.. :?


Joined: 2009-03-18
Posts: 349
I'm not sure any of us can help you come up with the right thing to do. You know her way better than us and I think if anything is going to bring her back to you it is going to be doing that one thing that proves how much you understand her. It might be something that also take quite a bit of self sacrifice for you. Mostly you have to respect her space. Do you think she still has feelings for you? If she doesn't I would say that you have to move on. You may feel that she is the only one - but you are young and you will find love elsewhere.

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