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|I think you observed correctly that this guy has an interest in you. We have something in our community called "Gay Radar" and I think you are on his radar . Even though people think they're in the closet or "hiding" their gayness from the world - alot of times they aren't. Those around us can tell - especially other gay and lesbian people. He probably knows you are gay and he can pick up on your attraction. When I came out to my parents way back when, my parents said "we thought so".
I think that now that you have started to allow yourself to acknowledge what you feel toward men it may be hard to resist - especially when they come around and start flirting. Stay open and honest to everyone so you don't get into an even bigger mess!