|View single post by archubbycub|
|Posted: 2012-06-19 08:03 pm||
Just a fun loving cuddly chub
I agree with ftmichael. You have tried a long time. You NEED to be honest with your wife about your sexual orientation. How you Atwo work it out after that is up to you. Maybe the two of you will agree to you trying out being with a man and gathering your thoughts on the situation. Maybe she'll say "no way - this is over". In any event - you can not control how she is going to react. The only thing you can control is being true to yourself and stepping up to do the right thing.
You're both right. I've been thinking all this over and I agree. It's time I stop lying, to everyone, including myself. I've asked her if we can talk when she gets home from work. I'm not gonna lie, I'm nervous as hell, but I know this has to be done and I know it's the right thing to do. Thank you both for your advice. I sincerely appreciate it and will let you know how it goes.
And there's nothing wrong with me
This is how I'm suppose to be
In a land of make believe
That don' believe in me
"Jesus of Suburbia" --Green Day