|Sounds like you've already been trying for 13 years. I don't see it working out, to be blunt. Repressing yourself doesn't make for a happy marriage, and sets a terrible example for your kids. Surely you want better for them than that.
I very strongly advise therapy with someone who is LGBT-friendly, and connecting with more gay parents, especially those who were in straight marriages prior to coming out. There are loads out there. http://www.everyoneisgay.com/us/arkansas.html lists some resources for folks in Arkansas, although there are plenty of others to find that aren't listed there. PFLAG is a fantastic organisation.
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