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|I think you have to be strong and stay with what works for you. You have to be yourself. Until you are true to yourself you will never find true happiness and freedom. Just break them in slowly. Change one thing at a time and they will slowly get use to your new look. If they are harsh and say something nasty or critical, have a comeback ready for them that will shut them up and move the conversation along to something else. Try to make light of it. You can not seek their approval before hand - just go for it a little bit at a time. Be brave. If you aren't yourself you will never meet others who are like you. Remember - they are the ones with the character flaws if they condemn you.