View single post by marshmallow
 Posted: 2012-01-14 08:38 pm
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Excellent!  I am happy you are making a first step.  Personally, I would downplay it - give it a "no big deal" attitude.  I would probably say something like "just felt like trying something new" and do not linger on the topic for too long.  For you it is actually a sorta big thing because it represents something even bigger (your sexuality) but your friends don't know that.  For all they know, you are merely just experimenting with fashion and trying out the more relaxed and comfortable look.  Which, by the way, is a very valid fashionable expression!  :) 

If they make negative comments do not get discouraged - just come up with a prepared joke line or something to cut the tension.  I don't know - something like "you know I'm looking good and your just jealous cause you didn't think of it!".  You know your friends so come up with something that they will laugh at and move along - just cut the tension and be done with it. Keep it mellow. If there are some celebrities (that your friends respect) who dress in a similar way, you can drop their names.

Do your thing girl!

Hope this helped!  Let us know how it goes! 

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