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 Posted: 2011-07-07 12:45 am
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I'm glad my post inspires you!  I sincerely feel that gay/lesbian couples have alot of the same issues as the hetero couples  - it just takes some hard work and stick-to-it-ness to get through the rough patches!  I think so many of us get use to the easy exit because we haven't been able to get married so there is no legal difficulties to slow us down when we are looking for a quick exit.  We, of course, have some added challenges.  My best words of advice -

find someone you truly love (not just looks - love their soul)

find someone who truly loves you for who you are

don't spend alot of time picking apart everything your spouse does/says and don't engage in a huge argument unless the importance level is a 10 out of 10 in seriousness.  This takes mastering the art of compromise!  always seek fun and treat each other with kindness, respect and romance

and don't ever believe what the Christians have to say about anything related to gays and lesbians!  ;)  So many of our straight friends tell us we have the most "normal" and balanced relationship of anyone they know.......  Doesn't matter if you are straight or gay - it just matters how you interact with others and treat your spouse....



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