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 Posted: 2014-12-18 11:05 pm
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Sometimes growth comes in our life when it isn't convenient. You can judge yourself because of the path you are on.

I think you are trying to define yourself without exploring - and that is impossible. You will never know if you are lesbian or bi until you explore.

Just because your husband has buried his bi tendencies, that doesn't mean you have to close yourself off to your sexuality. He travels his path and you travel your path. Even if you are married.

It is never a good idea, or fair, to lie to loved ones. Your husband deserves your honesty. He has to give you some room to explore. Only then will you know for sure who you are. At that point, you and your husband can decide how to move forward. Who knows, maybe you are meant to be best friends only. Which can still be very good for your children. Much better than both of you living lies.

Start with being honest with your husband. Be careful in your exploration so your kids are brought into this before it is time.

let us know how it goes.

Be confident in who you are as you begin to discover.

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