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 Posted: 2013-12-11 05:58 pm
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Josh

 

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Hi, I'm 13 and I'm a boy.

Recently I have kind of felt that I may be bisexual/gay. I keep putting it off and telling myself that it is a phase but it's gone on and on. This makes me think that it is right, but I really don't know whether I'm bisexual or gay right now. I like girls for happiness because I will probably have awkward relationships if I liked boys, but recently I've just felt more like I should date a boy instead of a girl.

I absolutely have no idea who I should tell first - I'm thinking my parents last, because even though they're fine with homosexuals and have friends that are, I just don't think it will end well. A close friend doesn't seem very easy either, because it could strain the relationship. I'm considering telling a girl in my class who supports gay people a lot, and I'm thinking that maybe she could help me.

Everytime I think about it, I tell myself that I will come out the next day. But when it comes to it, I just feel really worried that something will go wrong and I will be judged then i'll blush really bad (I have a phobia of blushing) and I really don't want that to happen.

What does everyone else think I should do?

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