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 Posted: 2013-05-19 04:28 am
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Hi there and thank you for the welcome!

Finally, someone I can talk to and ask advice from!
Yes, I would say that I might have the hots for this guy. I would love it if he were attracted to me too. It's never that easy though. However, I would not want him to struggle with it. I realize what I'm about to say is like a fantasy but I'd like it to be easy to realize his attraction. Never that easy for anyone though.

Going back to not talking to him about sexuality. I just don't feel like it's my place to bring it up. If he wants to talk about it, then that's great, I'd be more than happy to. Nervous, but happy. It would please me even more if there were no drama involved. Although, that is rarely the case. I still hold out a small hope that something might happen one day.

Just tonight, we worked together (which is about once a week. Not much) and we had a pretty good time. We steal glances every now and then. He has this thing about lifting his shirt up further than necessary to put his phone in his pocket or retrieve it. I did that once and caught him steal a glance at me as well. A couple things that still confuse me is that he calls me bro every now and then and he talks about "girls" sometimes. Yet he still stands so close to me and makes a point to touch me every now and then. Not that I'm complaining, I'm just confused. I'm new to all this really.

As far as being "out", allow me to rephrase myself. The people that are most important to me know about me. Otherwise, I don't go around advertising it because I think it's part of my personal life and important people of my life can share that.

Thanks for the help!

Sincerely,
Searching4Simple

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