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 Posted: 2013-04-11 09:05 pm
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VergelBrant

 

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Hello, I should be straight forward with my problem. Please, read it completely before making any assumptions.

I came to this community to eradicate the stereotypes and viscid thoughts in my mind. I'm a jealous man, partly because of my insecurities and partly because of my lover. She is a wonderful woman who is perfect for me, it causes me guilt to think I might not be half to her what she is to me.

She's bisexual, she's been with men and women alike. I always had this idea that bisexuals had a "lean," either masculine or feminine. Her past would indicate a feminine lean, but the only thing her friends and her can say about me is how masculine I am compared to her past relationships. Now, as someone who has always favored that description of me, in this case it makes me feel terrible. I don't want to be the exception, I want to be her ideal.

She insists I am, she implores I am nothing less than perfect for her for the plethora of gifts and love and support and improvements I give to her. No matter how much she says she desires me more than anything and desires nothing else, and her treatises on her love for me, or her obsession with me - I can't help but feel I'm just a phase.

In all honesty, I don't know how to ask this question. I don't know what to ask. I just felt comfortable speaking about this here.

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