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|Hello and welcome. What strikes me from reading your post is that you are wanting to start a realtionship without really getting out there and making friends. The best relationships happen naturally which means starting out as friends. Then there is the flip side - sometimes it is just as important to get out there and explore your body (and someone elses) and experience casual SAFE sex.
Where are you going to meet people?
If you are feeling too shy to get out to the bars and meet people, perhaps an ad in a gay publication. That is what I did at one point in San Francisco. But, if you are living in a close minded area of the country, meeting people cold from an ad is dangerous so you would want to communicate alot over the phone or in a public area for quite a few dates first.