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|I forgot to address the issue of your boyfriend. I can tell you care about him deeply as a friend and human being. It is because of this that you have to be honest with him and set him free so that he will be able to find true love with someone who is straight. Getting caught up in the immediate goal of sparing his feelings will only harm him in a deeper way later on. Once again, you can not help who you were born as - and it is completely understandable that it took you a little bit of time to figure it out. What you can do is control how you approach the problem and, believe me, it is much better to set him free now. He can also go to PFLAG meetings to gain a better understanding of what you are going through and to understand that you do indeed love him as a friend and that there is no one man that can make a woman a lesbian. We are born that way.