Please take a moment to view my story of The Loss of a Son. Its not finished yet its in the beginning when I'm trying not to explode. I've come a long way and I'lll get to the more recent events and the changes in my life but I think its important to get my side of the story out. It might help others with their own stuggles.
Please also let others know about my site and they and you can leave comments. But before you do let everyone know our relationship is at a better place now and were both adjusting.
Hi Father of a Trans - I read your blog and it is heartwrenching.
We do try to keep this forum positive and uplifting. We have all heard and experienced parental reactions such as yours and need to hear the positive. By saying this, it is not at all my intent to diminish your feelings.
I'd like to encourage you to complete your blog with some positive thoughts when you've come through your negative reaction and post your blog again.
You may try PFLAG - an organization of parents and friends of our community. They will help you realize that you have not lost a son - but gained a daughter, that your daughter is the same beautiful soul now as she was as a man and that this is very far from the worst thing that could ever happen to you.
Best of luck.
If other forum members disagree with my decision to remove this link - please reply.