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Im a girl whos into girls emotionally but guys sexually.am i bi or something?
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 Posted: 2010-11-13 06:30 pm
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help. im a girl whos had boy and girl crushes mostly girl crushes. im not sure if its just because i envy girls or if im attracted to them like guys are. i havent had a boyfriend. i usually get asked if im a lesbian which makes me more confused. physically, i find more women beautiful than men handsome. i have never had a relationship with both sexes. i have tried kissing both sexes and found that its the same. i havent had sex with both sexes but i only get turned on visually with boy-girl sex and not with girl-girl sex. but im also not sure if living in a homophobic country is the thing that's making me still want guys or if its really because im really just attracted to both sexes. i dont know. im so confused

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 Posted: 2010-11-14 10:09 pm
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As the forum's resident active bisexual Canadian (epic credentials I know :P) I'm here to help! From what you've said I have to determine your probably are at least bi-curious. Your cultural upbringing shouldn't effect your sexual attractions at their core (it may lessen your desire to act on the urges, but it doesn't change them). If you have any questions feel free to PM me! :)



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 Posted: 2010-11-16 01:25 am
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hey cupid dupid - thanks for joining our community website! 

We've had a few people post with similar issues.  The best advice I can give is to just relax with it and try not to intellectualize it too much.  When opportunities arise, take advantage of them - and you will know for sure once you start experimenting.  Don't let the fact that woman/woman porn videos don't turn you on cause they usually suck and I think the only people who get turned on by them is straight men!  :)

 

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 Posted: 2010-11-19 02:11 am
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Admin wrote:
they usually suck

Oh so true



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 Posted: 2012-04-06 10:54 am
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"they usually suck"
I'm a bi, probably even lesbian girl, and I sooo agree!

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