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 Posted: 2011-04-01 12:28 am
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So well I'm Rose. I love playing with fire, reading, Harry Potter(including AVPM), and colorguard. To be totally honest I really don't know what I am these days. I'm either bi or straight. I do have a boyfriend, we will have been going out for 8 monthes soon. I'm also 15 and not a virgin. Yes I know I'm young but it just sorta happened like stuff does. But anyways one of my best friends just told me she likes a girl and it kinda got me thinking. Like I notice girls and I find some very attractive but I don't know if thats normal or not. I'm too scared to ask my friends though... I definately like guys though. I was just going to ignore it I mean I have a boyfriend, well actually he's my fiancee( I don't plan on getting married anytime soon though) so why would it even matter. I still love him and I'll still be with him so I tried to forget it... that was 2 days ago... I haven't been able to stop thinking about it ever since. So I'm confused as hell...:?

 

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 Posted: 2011-04-01 04:04 am
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Hi and welcome. 

You are so young and you have plenty of time to figure out your sexual orientation.  We are all born with our sexual orientation decided for us (it is in our genes).  Your role is to relax and let the mystery unfold on it's own.  I would say that you should definitely not get married anytime soon, however, if you are feeling some bi-curious emotions.  It is not fair to the person you love.  Slow down a little and let "it" happen.  Read through the posts on this board - there are alot of people experiencing similar feelings as yourself.

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 Posted: 2011-04-05 03:02 am
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yeah I know I'm young. I have so much stuff though, family problems and such. But my big problem is how to tell my bf that I think I might like girls... I feel bad cuz I been distant lately cuz I'm thinking about it non-stop and he wants to know whats wrong but I just don't know howvto tell him. Isbit better ro wait until I know or just tell him?:?



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 Posted: 2011-04-06 03:49 am
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If you think your BF will be a support for you then by all means share now.  Otherwise - wait until you are ready.  You do not need any extra pressure.  Try to relax with this - it may take time to unfold.

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 Posted: 2011-04-08 12:13 am
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I told him today. He told me that it doesnt matter to him and that he still loves me. He told me he would try to help but he doesn't know how. Like he truely didnt know what to say to comfort me other than that he would be there... Its great that everything is still great but it doesn't change that I still dont know. I even asked if he would be mad if I kissed a girl but he didnt know. Its still just so confusing...



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 Posted: 2011-04-08 04:50 am
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Glad to hear that he will be a support for you.  I think the best way for him to be a support to you is to not apply pressure.  And you should try to do that for yourself as well.  This is not something that is going to be sorted out quickly.  Just try to relax with it.  You have lots of time in life - don't be in a rush.  It's got to be with the right girl at the right time.  This should be a fun thing!  ;)

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 Posted: 2011-04-08 08:21 pm
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thats true... I think since I'm already in a relationship I'll just try not to worry about it. One day I'll figure it out but until then I'll have fun with my bf :) thanks sooooo much!!!



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 Posted: 2011-04-12 05:05 am
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Sounds like a healthy, balanced decision!  Good luck and come on back any time!

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