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 Posted: 2014-11-09 10:59 pm
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ZooGirl02

 

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Hello everyone. I am new here. I will go by ZooGirl or ZooGirl02 on here and not by my real name for privacy.

Anyway, I'm a 32 year old somewhat masculine bisexual woman. I'm quite new to the lgbt scene so I don't know exactly how to describe myself. Sometimes I am feminine and sometimes I am masculine. I'm in a relationship with a 32 year old bisexual man who is quite feminine.

Anyway, I have known that I was bisexual since I was 17. I had always been masculine in my behavior and stuff. I always loved boys toys. I played with ninja turtles and legos as a child.

So anyway, I'm here partly because I need advice and support with dealing with homophobic people. I live in a red state in the United States and people can be quite cruel around here. Nevertheless, I am more in love with my man that I have ever been before and him and I have both promised each other not to leave each other. We accept each other as we are. I guess I'm just not sure how to handle people who can be cruel.

Him and I do give each other public displays of affection. We're not ashamed of each other in the least. Earlier we was at a friend's baby shower and I told him I loved him in front of two guys who seemed to be laughing at us. He said it in return of course. Then before I had to go back home I gave him a big hug and a kiss and he waved at me as he was going back in. It was so sweet and it made me feel good to know that he's not going to let haters cause problems for us.

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 Posted: 2014-11-10 03:05 am
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ZooGirl02

 

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Why is everyone being shy?

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 Posted: 2014-11-10 04:16 am
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I'd like to know why people on this site are so shy as well...

The best way to deal with haters is to not give them power over you. Laugh it off, have something clever to say back to them (if you feel safe). I dealt with homophobia by moving to San Fran and had the time of my life! I realize not everyone can make a move like that - but - it sure helps to live in a community that isn't scared of others who are different.

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 Posted: 2014-11-10 03:08 pm
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Admin wrote:
I'd like to know why people on this site are so shy as well...

The best way to deal with haters is to not give them power over you. Laugh it off, have something clever to say back to them (if you feel safe). I dealt with homophobia by moving to San Fran and had the time of my life! I realize not everyone can make a move like that - but - it sure helps to live in a community that isn't scared of others who are different.


Yeah I agree with you. Unfortunately I don't think moving is an option for him and I at this time.

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 Posted: 2016-06-03 05:56 am
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Sniff. I am not shy. But I am also wondering why everyone else is.
I am into girls [guys are weird in my opinion] but also have masculine tendancies. [Cutting hair suuuper short in a guys cut, wearing guy-ish clothes, ect,.]
So again. Not shy. Also want to talk to a person on this site with the same interests I have! [Which is why I joined.]
AND YESSS I AM STUCK WITH A COMMUNITY WITH VIRTUALLY NO LGTB'S SO I FEEL SOOOOOOO ALONE -
So again: I AM NOT SHY.
If you want to strike up a PM conversation, I'm all for it!
And just wanna talk about interests and normal stuff. Nothing else.

Last edited on 2016-06-03 05:58 am by A_Lonley_Rainbow_Girl



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